KISS: Make Choices That Make Your Life Less Complicated.
Sometimes I have an "auto bevlieging". A fit, caprice, whim to buy a car. (I looked it up, Dutch word is better for my feeling.) I'm kind of on an island here in my village. The bus doesn't come on sunday, and doesn't come late in the day. I wanted to visit a friend that is ill, but can't get there. And I want to get back to my cats in time. I often have to bum rides from friends to get to an event. However, a car is a complication I don't want. (I sold my last car in 2012). It's a cut in my budget. It can break down. I can cause an accident. Sometimes I get a Girlfriend Bevlieging. Often when I a mourning a death, I entertain a whim to get into a relationship perhaps even with kids. However, romantic relationships seem like a major cause of conflict and stress. Let alone with kids. I lost my libido along the way which adds a further complication. In engineering, they say KISS: keep it simple stupid. (Engineering simple things can be deceptively compli...